Program Info

This Re-training is about clarifying and qualifying each of our needs.  This training also examines victimhood and blame in a way where we each will find freedom. I have seen that we can end victimhood by doing RE-TRAINING of our true self. The goal is to assess and experientially see and feel our present way of doing our life. Through this training each participant develops their inner strength and  stronger emotional capacity (maturity) for dealing with self and with others. With this program, we will enhance our compassion to express safely - old situations of hurts and pains for self, others and humanity. This is a safe effective method to develop skills to help yourself and along with others, who will safely assist you.  Together, we can develop our understanding to trust our self more fully... and to be even more functional, with safety.  We all want to better understand life and have other people understand with us. Increasing ones' capacity to allow others to share and resolve distortions in life, in the most healthy and empathetic way is another goal of this training. And be so compassionate to support and nurture ones' truth to provide the safest of healing and helping environments. This is a simplified, yet safe method of helping, healing, coaching or assisting another human being in meaningful understanding and resolution of problems in life... relationships, addictions, negative behaviors or compulsions.

Examples of training:

• Add to, re-establish and strengthen your understanding of food and diet, eating and and feeding and diet and nutrition issues
• Understand physical, emotional hunger and food, nicotine and other medicators
• Identify family-of-origin & community issues that keep us unhealthy & unhappy.
• Develop awareness & connections to body needs
• Become more conscious and aware of recovery, addiction and compulsions
• Delineate the role of power/powerlessness as it relates to sexual issues
• Identify & experience feelings in a safe community
• Identify coexisting dependencies and relapse triggers
• Develop greater self-awareness and connection to physical needs
• Create strategies to change painful & destructive behavior patterns
• Learn basic experiential techniques to facilitate healing and discipline in dealing with emotions
• Explore attitudes and beliefs towards violence & shame in families, communities, society

It is beneficial to honor the spiritual teachings of all other faiths such as Buddha, Christ, Muhammad, Scientology. Faiths that seek to have the peaceful harmony of compassion and non-violence as the path to life.  Because the goal of healing is to become "totally" healthy, a holistic approach must be taken. Human beings are viewed as a body, mind and spirit, encompassing emotions, thinking, and behaviors. Other important components of healing and life are environment, which includes community, family, work or profession and culture, traditions, as well as, laws and belief system. 
This holistic approach includes how we take care of our bodies, what we put into our bodies by way of food and toxins and what we take out through behaviors and addictions as well as medicating.  Healing ones' sexuality is another key factor in healthy living and this is usually the last “part” to heal because of the enormous shame involved. Especially if violence is involved.  To heal is to address all aspects of complacency or apathy towards violence in all its forms... these must explored and eliminated.

 Develop a COMMON LANGUAGE for Recovery and Healing
We must develop a common language  for us to understand one and other so that we will make greater gains in our understanding of one and other.  Emotions have the greatest energy in our bodies and are ever-present. When faced with learning a new skill or refreshing an old one, we encounter emotion. Our past experience determines whether we make a choice or have a reaction. What we do depends on where we are and who with and what's the payoff. The real test for healthiness is in a close relationship... up close and personal. OR in a safe therapeutic setting where all stimulants such as caffeine, tobacco, sugar/salt junk foods, reading materials, phone, radio, TV, red meat, and isolating or hanging out with one person only (pairing) are removed. Can you imagine how long it would take to reach the deep shameful "Stuff"?

Now, we need things to help us deal with stress, so here come the addictions, disease, and other negative afflictions. We have lost the ability and opportunity to the expression of natural emotions? This causes us so many more problems and creates strong negative reactions when you "over" release "pent-up" emotions! This is really frowned upon, especially by people who cannot release their own or have been abused by "violent" people.

This phenomenon is even more extreme in small close isolated communities, families, systems or professions. It is essential for most of us to relearn or re-parent our selves and become more conscious and aware of basic emotions, senses and thinking. Old thinking and doing must be changed so that addiction or compulsion are eliminated or made them less powerful... toxic people and environments are the same.
 

 Example:  ADDICTION